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Moment 210: Dr. Gabor Maté: Your Trauma Is Secretly Controlling You! (Until You Try This)
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What if your anxiety, people-pleasing, or need to prove yourself isn’t a flaw… but a wound? Dr. Gabor Maté explains that trauma isn’t just about abuse or neglect - it’s the psychological injuries we carry from not getting our emotional needs met as children. This moment explores how those hidden wounds silently shape our adult lives - and how to finally begin healing them.
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Shaolin Warrior Monk: The Hidden Epidemic Nobody Is Talking About! This Modern Habit Is Quietly Killing Millions! Prediction For The Collapse Of The West!
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From pain to purpose, Master Shi Heng Yi reveals the ancient mind tricks Shaolin monks use to master themselves and break free.
Master Shi Heng Yi is Headmaster of the Shaolin Temple Europe and a spiritual teacher, who shares ancient Eastern philosophy to help people master their mind, body, and purpose in life. He is also the author of the book, ‘Shaolin Spirit: The Way to Self-Mastery’.
In this conversation, Master Shi Heng Yi and Steven discuss topics such as, the hidden epidemic nobody is talking about, the modern habit that’s quietly killing millions, why the West is falling, and the real reason you’re always anxious.
00:00 Intro
02:13 What's Your Mission & What Do People Come to You For
05:53 Why Are We Suffering?
07:34 How Do We Find Our Purpose?
13:18 Why People Struggle to Find Their Purpose
15:40 What Do We Need to Be Connected To?
21:26 Identities and the Feeling of Lack
26:56 Letting Go of Your Ideas
29:08 How to Break Old Patterns
34:57 Training New Patterns
35:43 Advice for Young Men
38:43 Why Are Young Men Struggling?
39:45 The 5 Things Holding All Humans Back
42:16 Living in a World Full of Temptations
43:23 Discipline
45:25 Be Aware of Your Trigger Moments
49:01 Bringing Light to the Dark Areas of Your Life
01:07:47 Negative Feelings That Stop You From Growing
01:10:49 How Not to Be Affected by What Others Think of You
01:26:06 Ads
01:26:58 Kung Fu and Waking Up
01:32:20 The Shaolin Virtues
01:33:13 Do You Believe in God?
01:36:02 Are You Happy?
01:37:28 What Are Karmic Connections?
01:38:49 What Is Your Daily Practice?
01:43:38 The Importance of Doing Hard Things
01:48:29 How Master Shi Embraces Growth Daily
01:53:05 First Step to Be Comfortable With Uncertainty
01:57:42 Ads
01:59:54 What Is the RAIN Method?
02:03:46 Your Last Message to Your Son
02:05:01 I Couldn't Grieve My Father's Death
02:11:22 What to Do When Things Are Left Unsaid With Someone Who's Gone
02:14:58 What Does It Mean to Master Oneself?
02:25:10 What Is Your Greatest Regret?
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Former FBI Agent: If They Do This Please RUN! Narcissists Favourite Trick To Control You! They're Controlling You Like A Puppet!
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Joe Navarro spent decades catching liars for the FBI, now he reveals the subconscious habits that are sabotaging your success
Joe Navarro is a former FBI agent and internationally recognised expert in the interpretation and application of nonverbal behaviour. He is also the author of over 15 books such as, 'Be Exceptional: Master the Five Traits That Set Extraordinary People Apart'.
In this conversation, Joe and Steven discuss topics such as, the quiet trick that gives you instant control, how to read any room like a book, the negotiation trick the FBI use, and the one gesture that reveals you’re not confidence.
00:00 Intro
02:25 Who Are You and What Have You Spent Your Life Working On?
04:30 What Is It You're Giving People?
07:16 How Would My Life Change If I Applied Your Knowledge?
11:13 Your Career
12:01 Behavioral Program at the FBI
15:01 Have You Caught Spies?
22:08 Story of Catching a Spy Using Flowers
26:42 How Many People Could Be Spies Walking Among Us?
29:16 Is Body Language Important?
34:43 First Impressions
37:33 How Do We Synchronize With Someone?
44:15 Eyebrow Knitting
46:08 Eyelid Touching
49:45 What Do Our Lips Give Away?
51:14 The Supersternal Notch
55:54 How Do We Negotiate?
1:02:49 Writing Down the Goal of Your Negotiation
1:06:51 Taking Control of a Situation
1:11:07 When Should We Walk Into Rooms?
1:15:09 Why Does Height Matter When Speaking to Someone?
1:20:25 What Clues in Someone’s Posture Should We Look For?
1:26:00 The Importance of Observing
1:27:42 Can You Train Confidence?
1:31:59 Don’t Rise at the End of a Sentence
1:34:20 Speaking in Cadence
1:36:31 Hand Gestures
1:38:12 Eye Contact
1:39:40 What to Do When Greeting People
1:42:59 Should We Be Taking Notes?
1:46:07 Handshakes
1:48:42 Behaviors You Wouldn’t Want From a Leader
1:49:34 Self-Mastery
1:51:52 The Importance of Taking Action
1:53:22 Observation
1:53:42 Psychological Comfort
1:57:59 How to Spot a Narcissist
2:04:07 Narcissism and Self-Belief
2:06:02 How Has Seeing All of This Changed You as a Human?
2:11:22 Is There a Proudest Day in Your Career?
2:13:10 The Importance of Connecting
2:14:53 What Do People Say They Like About You?
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Published Monday
Top Neuroscientist: Anxiety Is A Predictive Error In The Brain! Heres The Proof Your Brain Is Faking Trauma! Your Whole Life Might Be A Prediction!
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What if your anxiety isn’t fear, and your trauma might not be real? Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett reveals how your brain creates emotional illusions.
Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett is a Professor of Psychology and among the top 0.1% of most cited scientists for her revolutionary research in psychology and neuroscience. She is also the author of books such as ‘Seven and a Half Lessons About the Brain’.
In this conversation, Dr. Lisa and Steven discuss topics such as, how anxiety is a predictive error in the brain, the shocking truth about childhood trauma, how trauma can be contagious, and why you don’t have any free will.
00:00 Intro
02:22 Lisa's Mission
04:14 Why Is It Important to Understand How the Brain Works?
10:48 Measuring Emotions
13:55 What Is the Predictive Brain?
16:08 Examples of the Brain Making Predictions
24:13 Is the Predictive Brain at the Root of Trauma?
31:27 Cultural Inheritance, Trauma, Anxiety, and Depression
36:29 How Reframing Past Events Can Change Identity
42:41 Meaning as a Consequence of Action
44:11 How to Overcome Fear by Taking Action
45:43 Prediction Error
47:37 Learning Through Exposure
49:47 Dangers of Social Contagion
54:06 Anxiety in the Context of Social Contagion
58:33 Is Social Media Programming Us to Be Sad?
1:02:08 Ads
1:03:03 First Step to Overcoming Mental Health Issues
1:05:18 Chronic Pain
1:08:23 What Is Depression?
1:09:17 Body Budgeting and Body Bankruptcy
1:12:26 How Stress Contributes to Weight Gain
1:15:00 Depression in Adolescents
1:17:02 Is Depression a Chemical Imbalance?
1:18:30 The Story of Lisa's Daughter
1:21:09 Oral Birth Control as a Risk Factor for Depression
1:24:07 How Lisa Helped Her Daughter Overcome Depression
1:29:11 Social Support
1:35:26 Lisa's Daughter's Recovery from Depression
1:39:12 Does Alcohol Affect the Body Budget and Increase Depression Risk?
1:42:45 Ads
1:44:00 Can People Change Emotions by Smiling?
1:45:49 Lisa's Perspective on ADHD
1:48:01 The Power of Words to Facilitate Emotion
1:52:26 Stress as a Burden to the Metabolic Budget
1:53:27 Lisa's View on God and Religion
1:54:25 What Is the Meaning of Life in Lisa's Opinion?
1:59:32 Question from the Previous Guest
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Published 04/17
Moment 208: The Dumbest Financial Advice Everyone Weirdly Follows That’s Keeping Them Poor!
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What if the key to investing wasn’t finding the next big thing—but surviving the next unknown?
Bestselling author and savings expert Morgan Housel shares the true story that changed how he sees risk forever—and how it reshaped his philosophy on money, markets, and why most people lose when they try to predict the future.
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Published 04/11
*NEW* Body Language Expert: When You Do This You Look like A Loser...(Sorry But You Do)! This Is The Real Reason You're Still Single!
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Can you make someone like you in seconds? Vanessa Van Edwards returns with the science-backed secrets of dating and likeability - tested in real-life dating scenarios for the very first time.
Vanessa Van Edwards is the founder of ‘Science of People’, a platform that gives people skills to improve communication and leadership. She is also the bestselling author of ‘Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People’ and ‘Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication’.
00:00 Intro
03:02 How Important Is It to Master the Skill of Communication?
03:33 Are We Set in Our Ways? Is Charisma Genetic?
04:18 Different Types of Awkwardness in People
04:53 How to Make Friends – The 3 Core Friendship Values
06:37 How Do You Figure Out Your Core Friendship Values?
07:34 How Many People Has Vanessa Taught These Skills? And What Do They Want?
08:18 First Impressions
10:24 Profile Pictures
14:10 Add Cues for a Better First Impression
15:28 How Sunglasses Block Connection
16:21 More Good Cues for First Impressions
16:54 How Do I Make a Really Bad First Impression?
18:30 What We Need to Signal to Express Warmth
21:27 Breaking the Script
23:19 Master Communicators and the "Chemical Cocktail"
28:11 Online First Impressions
29:11 Be the Red Apple
30:17 How to Make an Impression on Zoom
32:08 The Story Toolbox
35:07 How Important Is Background on Zoom?
36:29 Where to Look on Zoom Calls
37:16 Date Experiments
43:09 Drivers and Passengers in Conversation
44:23 Micro Wins
45:05 Body Language That Indicates Attraction
49:35 Why Busyness Is Not a Mark of Success
51:16 The Jam Study – Too Many Choices
52:12 Prioritizing Self-Care Over Connection
53:08 Dating Checklists
54:23 Do We Get More Numb the More We Date?
55:32 Two Challenges If You're in a Funk or Feeling Lonely
58:26 Steve Being a Control Freak
01:00:14 Networking Events
01:00:55 Ads
01:09:20 Using the Word "Because" as a Leader
01:11:01 How Do We Know If Someone Likes Us?
01:14:20 What If You're Not a Funny Person?
01:16:09 Can You Learn to Be Funny?
01:16:57 Touch
01:18:10 Hacks for Being Funny
01:19:36 Channeling Other People
01:20:36 Microexpressions
01:21:37 Reading Fear in People's Faces
01:23:24 Seeing Disgust in People's Faces
01:25:09 How to Tell If Someone Is Angry Without Them Saying It
01:27:05 How to Tell When Someone Is Truly Happy
01:28:49 How to Tell If Someone Is Sad Even If They Don’t Say It
01:31:03 How to Tell If Someone Is Surprised
01:32:33 How to Tell If Someone Has Contempt Toward You
01:35:23 Can and Should We Change Our Personalities?
01:37:20 Steve's Personality Traits
01:38:49 Making Your New Partner Take a Personality Test
01:41:20 Conscientious People
01:57:05 Do Extroverts Have Better Immunity?
01:58:04 Personality Traits of Lifelong Singles
01:59:57 Should We Know Other People's Personality Types When We Meet Them?
02:01:38 Feeling Like the Vibe Is Off
02:03:31 What Are You Doing to Serve Others
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Published 04/10
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Anti-Aging Expert (Peter Attia): Anti-aging Cure No One Talks About! 50% Chance You’ll Die In A Year If This Happens! Boost Testosterone Naturally Without TRT!
Dr. Peter Attia is a physician, researcher, and best-selling author of Outlive: The Science and Art of Longevity. He founded Early Medical, a longevity-focused practice, and co-founded 10 Squared, a hybrid testing lab and training center.
In this episode, Peter and Steven dive into the real science of aging, the #1 predictor of mortality most people ignore, the silent epidemic of male loneliness and addiction, and how to boost testosterone and extend your healthspan naturally.
Chapters:
00:00 Intro
00:02:16 What Is Peter Focused On at the Moment?
00:06:50 What Steven Wants To Be Able To Do in His Last Decade
00:10:20 Ageing Is Inevitable
00:15:15 What Peter Wishes Someone Had Told Him in His 30s
00:17:13 Men's Health
00:17:59 What Is It To Be a Man?
00:18:46 Is Testosterone on the Decline?
00:23:31 Sleep and Bad Choices
00:26:50 What Are the Things Peter Wants To Do in His Marginal Decade?
00:28:48 How To Prepare Now for the Marginal Decade
00:32:11 Peter's Workout Routine
00:35:39 What Causes Injury in the Gym?
00:37:45 Why Is Building Muscle Mass Important?
00:38:27 Training on Fatigue
00:40:43 Grip Strength Test as a Longevity Indicator
00:42:44 Danger of Falling After Age 65
00:45:32 How To Train Power To Prevent Falling in Older Age
00:46:46 Is Training Balance Important?
00:47:46 Peter's Approach to Flexibility Training
00:52:04 Peter's Strength Training Routine
00:53:06 Why Endurance Exercises Are Gaining Popularity
00:53:58 What Is VO2 Max and Why It Matters for Longevity
01:03:59 Jack's VO2 Max Results
01:05:40 Jack's Heart Rate Recovery Results
01:06:31 Jack's Zone 2 Test Results
01:08:34 How Can Jack Improve His Results?
01:09:00 Ads
01:11:18 Jack's Cardio Routine
01:13:21 Measuring Bone Density and Muscle Mass – DEXA Scan
01:19:52 Preventing Bone Density Loss
01:21:32 Nutrition for Bone Density
01:23:44 Building Muscle Mass
01:25:30 Gaining Muscle Mass Through Nutrition
01:27:26 How Different Are Women's Results Generally?
01:28:34 Determining if Subcutaneous Fat Is an Issue
01:29:52 What Causes Visceral Fat?
01:30:59 Intermittent Fasting To Reduce Visceral Fat
01:31:28 Sleep, Stress, and Visceral Fat Connection
01:32:34 Is Alcohol Acceptable from a Health Perspective?
01:36:24 Are People Electrolyte Deficient?
01:37:56 Importance of Nuance in Navigating Information
01:42:21 Peter's Book
01:44:13 Question From the Previous Guest
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Published 04/07
Moment 207: CIA Spy Reveals How To Read Anyone Like A Book!
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“If you want to manipulate people, I’ll teach you how.”
Former covert CIA officer Andrew Bustamante exposes the real spy tactics used to manipulate, uncover secrets and spot liars.
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Published 04/04
Corrupt Police Officer: I Arrested Drug Dealers, Then Sold Their Drugs! There’s Massive Corruption Going On Today! - Mike Dowd
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He was supposed to fight crime but broke every rule in the book - this is the real story of NYPD’s dirtiest cop, Mike Dowd.
Mike Dowd is a former New York City Police Department (NYPD) officer who became corrupt and worked for the Dominican-American Diaz criminal organisation. He was arrested in 1992 for drug distribution and served 12 years in prison.
In this conversation, Mike and Steven discuss topics such as, how Mike made $40,000 a day from police corruption, the secrets that NYPD don’t want you to know, how Mike never thought he’d get caught as a cop, and how getting arrested saved Mike’s life.
00:00 Intro
02:17 NY’s Dirtiest Cop
03:02 How Many Crimes Did Mike Commit?
04:21 Mike Stole Someone’s Porn Collection
08:48 Entering the Police Force
09:07 Did Mike Mean the Oath He Took?
09:41 Integrity Training at the Academy
11:04 We Were Always Told to Cover Our Ass
12:23 The Police Agree They Won't Snitch on Each Other
15:21 Mike Was Told to Stop Arresting People
18:21 Taxing People Instead of Arresting Them
19:52 Were Cops Given Sexual Favours?
20:53 Mike’s Sergeant Encouraging Robbing Money
23:10 Did Seeing Dead Bodies Bother Mike?
27:11 Started Dealing Drugs
29:20 Biggest Heist
30:07 Were Other Cops Involved in Stealing and Dealing?
33:07 Did Mike Ever Think He Was Going to Get Caught?
33:39 Mike’s Personal Life
34:23 Why Didn't You Stop?
34:31 Mike Receiving Death Threats from Another Officer
38:00 Baron Perez, the Brooklyn Middleman
38:21 Meeting La Compañía
39:42 La Compañía Boss Putting a Hit on Him
41:15 Meeting Adam Diaz
43:00 Mike Saving Adam Diaz’s Money
43:44 Franklin and Coke – Local Bandits Who Robbed Dealers
45:11 Ads
46:03 Officer Venable and Feeling Guilt
48:06 How Did Mike’s Guilt Manifest Physically?
50:02 Who Had You Become?
51:37 Coming Home from Rehab
53:20 How Long Were You in Rehab For?
53:51 Why Didn't You Stop If You Knew They Were Onto You?
54:44 The Year You Got Arrested
57:35 How Did It Feel When You Got Arrested?
59:56 Advice About Living an Authentic Life
01:03:21 Getting Released on Bail
01:04:43 Kidnapping Scandal to Pay Family’s Bail
01:06:31 Arrested for the Second Time
01:08:12 The Day You Went to Prison
01:09:53 Ads
01:10:54 What Was Your Family Going Through?
01:12:25 First Time Mike’s Mum Came to See Him in Prison
01:13:18 Mike Getting Emotional in Front of His Mum
01:14:23 Mike’s Mum Tried to Keep Him Straight
01:16:38 Mike’s Mother Not Showing Him Love
01:18:04 Reflections on Parents After Everything
01:20:27 Coming Out of Jail at 44
01:22:02 Being Institutionalised
01:23:12 Life After Jail
01:24:28 What Did Mike Need to Hear at 18?
01:26:57 Does Corruption Still Happen Today?
01:29:42 What Has the Universe Put You Here to Share?
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Published 04/03
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Masculinity Debate: Are Dating Apps Creating A Generation Of Incels?! Lonely Men Are More Dangerous Than Ever!
Are we raising a lost generation of men? Is society failing young boys? In this emergency discussion, Steven sits down with expert guests to explore the recently published ‘Lost Boys Report’.
The Diary Of A CEO’s masculinity discussion is joined by Scott Galloway and Logan Ury. Scott Galloway is a member of the advisory council for the American Institute for Boys and Men and Professor of Marketing at the New York Stern School of Business. Logan Ury is a behavioural scientist turned dating coach and Director of Relationship Science at Hinge.
In this discussion, Scott, Logan, and Steven discuss topics such as, how toxic masculinity has a grip on young men, whether dating apps are creating a generation of incels, the rising levels of violence among adolescent men, and why young boys are giving up on love and work.
00:00 Intro
02:13 The Lost Boys Report
03:46 Who Is Logan and What Does She Do?
05:07 Who Is Scott
06:12 How Did This Happen?
10:38 Fatherless Homes
14:40 Are Boys Mentally Weaker?
16:51 Is the Education System the Problem?
22:49 Where Are Male Role Models?
30:08 What the Stats Say About Dating
34:42 Dating Standards
44:23 Do Women Really Want Emotionally Attuned Men?
46:16 If They're Okay, Always Go on a Second Date
48:06 Men's Groups: Should We Have Them and What Are the Benefits?
54:57 Ads
55:50 Steve's Supportive Group of Friends
1:02:42 The Dangers of Porn for Young Boys
1:08:01 How Scott Helps Men With Porn Addiction
1:13:12 Men Approaching Women in a Post-MeToo Era
1:15:27 Teens Don’t Know How to Ask Girls Out in Person
1:25:22 Do Successful Women Struggle to Find a Partner?
1:28:11 Ads
1:29:14 The Rise of Feminism
1:30:54 Money Equals Identity for Men
1:36:09 Does Money Give Self-Worth to Women?
1:38:42 The Human Dating Boot Camp
1:47:33 How Is the Left Going to Get Men Back?
1:52:16 Advice for Parents of Young Boys
1:55:12 What Scott and Steve Had to Unlearn About Being a Man
2:10:02 Closing Message for the Lost Boys
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Published 03/31
Key Moment: Harvard Professor Reveals The Biggest Lies About Exercise & Weight Loss!
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Dr. Daniel Lieberman exposes the truth about cardio and fat loss, why modern shoes might be harming our feet, and how our quest for comfort is quietly weakening our bodies. This is a compassionate conversation for anyone who's ever struggled with knowing what to believe about exercise.
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Published 03/28
Menopause Expert: Belly Fat Grows During Menopause! Your Estrogen Levels Are Controlling You & This Hormone Is Quietly Killing Your Sex Life!
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Is your belly fat, stress, or burnout actually a hormone issue? Dr. Sara Szal reveals the hidden hormone connection and how to fix it for good
Dr. Sara Szal (previously Gottfried) is a Harvard-trained medical doctor and researcher, with 30 years of experience. She is the author of 4 bestselling books such as, ‘The Autoimmune Cure: Healing the Trauma and Other Triggers That Have Turned Your Body Against You’.
00:00 Intro
02:43 What Sara Does for People
04:16 Background and Training
05:56 Helping 40,000 People
08:44 What Is Precision Medicine?
10:19 What’s Wrong with Conventional Medicine?
13:04 Why Sara Chose This Career
15:10 Importance of Healing from Past Trauma
16:44 How Trauma Manifests into Health Conditions
20:43 Lack of Nutrition and Lifestyle Education in Medical Training
22:12 Cortisol and Stress
25:23 Is There a Link Between Cortisol and Trauma?
26:02 Daily Habits That Disrupt Hormones
29:15 How to Optimise Your Health
30:35 Is Sugar the Enemy?
31:56 Supplements for Hormonal Balance
32:52 Common Nutritional Deficiencies
36:54 How to Regulate Cortisol Levels
41:04 Is It Easy to Get Someone to Change?
42:20 Can Encouraging Change Cause Harm?
44:25 How to Support Someone Breaking Bad Habits
46:34 When Should Men Start Monitoring Testosterone?
47:58 Testosterone in Women
48:32 Signs of Low Testosterone in Men
49:02 Symptoms of Low Testosterone in Women
49:52 Symptoms of High Testosterone in Women
50:54 How to Regulate Testosterone Levels
53:08 Why Estrogen Is Important for Both Men and Women
58:40 Importance of Fibre in the Diet
59:30 Role of the Microbiome in Hormone Regulation
01:00:51 Fibre-Rich Foods
01:01:04 Sara’s Preferred Diet
01:02:53 The Ketogenic Diet
01:05:01 Side Effects of the Keto Diet
01:05:36 Can You Stay on Keto Long-Term?
01:07:00 Strategies for Effective Weight Loss
01:08:05 Fasting
01:12:05 What Is Perimenopause and When Does It Begin?
01:16:12 Can Menopause Symptoms Be Avoided?
01:16:47 Birth Control
01:17:37 Who Is Birth Control For?
01:18:28 How Is Sara Doing Today?
01:19:36 Whole Body Yes
01:20:39 How to Know If a Marriage No Longer Works
01:24:54 Sara’s Divorce: Could It Have Been Saved?
01:26:40 Are Women in Menopause More Likely to Divorce?
01:28:01 Do Happiness Levels Increase in Your 50s?
01:29:10 How to Better Support Women
01:32:38 How Gender Roles Can Be Harmful to Women
01:33:59 Why Women Are Generally More Stressed Than Men
01:35:11 Are Women More Sensitive Than Men?
01:35:46 Why Women Are More Prone to Autoimmune Diseases
01:38:13 Does Late Motherhood Increase Cancer Risk?
01:39:31 Are Gender Roles Misaligned with Human Biology?
01:40:44 What Is Polarity in Heterosexual Relationships?
01:44:52 How to Keep Sexual Attraction Alive
01:48:35 Building Emotional Connection with Conversation Cards
01:50:36 How Sleep Affects Hormonal Balance
01:52:18 Heart Rate Variability (HRV)
01:52:57 How to Improve HRV
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